November 2021

I live in a semi joint family. It means all of my paternal relatives live together in a building with individual flats. So hang out,party, picnic these things are like daily

affairs of us.

Now I am going to tell about a picnic which has been held recently on the roof top. It is different from the other picnic, because it has a twist at the end.

Picnic rooftop
Picnic on Rooftop photo

 

The picnic was held on 6/11/21 Saturday . Me along with my cousins we cleaned up and decorated our roof top first. As it was a picnic, it supposed to be look nice.Our chotochachima was the main planner of the event. It is important to mentioned that all of our chachimas along with my mom,are great cooks. The menues were gravy hochpoch,chicken,fried brinjal,egg curry,vegetable curry,pickles,spicey vortas ,soft drinks,Payesh and last but not the least,tea.

On 4 November, Borochachima and Mom made the list of rice,vegetable,and other necessary things for the picnic. On the following day 5 November, mom and borochachima bought all the things.On 6 November after 12 pm they all started cooking for the picnic. Borochacima prepared the main course ,Hochpoch for us.Mom prepared the starter ,Fried Brijal,Chotochachima prepared the appetizer and the desert  ,Egg curry ,Salad,Payesh.Boro vabi prepared the vegetable curry. Sejho Chachima prepared the beverage, Pickles and Vorta.Borochachu and Choto Chachu arranged the soft drinks. The night before the picnic me along with  my cousins rehearsed for the function, wrapped the prizes .

For the first time a cultural function had been arranged on the basis of which prizes had to be given That is why I mentioned the term competitive celebration in my title,the picnic held a competition to squeeze out all of our hidden talents.I was in hosting,I practiced my speech.Mumu,Mukta ,Subah ,Surah ,Zareef,Ibrahim,Khadija,they were supposed to do dance,they rehearsed their steps.

Daheek was supposed to deliver a self-made speech on our family and bonding.Sadik and Sabib,they were supposed to recite poem.Mihal rehearsed his most favorite poem Bak bakum payra.We almost practiced till 2a.m. By that time we all were tired due to practice and finally had a cup of tea at the end.

We all were super excited regarding the picnic because it was the first time where prize giving ceremony was to be held. On the following day when all the items were done ,We all went to the roof top,and settled all the things over there. Then we brought the dishes.Jerry and Meurin ,our two pet cat,they were the VIP guest of our picnic. After the arrival of all of us we started eating. All the items were tremendously fantastic.

After the lunch, We all get prepared for the function. I started my hosting speech. As it was starting of winter,I added some poetic vision in my speech.My Cousin Sadik helped me in hosting. Our function started with Daheek’s speech.

Then Mihal my younger brother,he performed his poem,Then Khadija danced in Bole churiyaan song,Subah Surah delivered a duet dance( I could not remember the song).Zareef and Ibrahim they were the best performers of the day,they danced really well.Hamdan and Iziyan were the main entertainer of the day.They kept us mesmerized with their innocent chaos. In one word,the function was fantastic.The almosphere was like the roof top was also vibrating with us.

At the end of the function,Me,Mukta,Mumu,Zareef,Subah we performed in Mahi ve song. We all tried to match our steps, the performance was really nice. All appreciated our efforts.

The funniest part of the day was: The workers from the nearby building they were even enjoying our function. They were clapping. There were also some kids who were watching our shows from their roof top.

Picnic rooftop
Picnic on Rooftop photo

 

Borochachima ,Mom,Mejho chachima,Sejho chachima and Choto chachima were our main aundience.Specially choto chachima was cheering up and encouraging for the  performances.

At the end ,the prize giving ceremony had been started.Boro vabi distributed all the prizes among us.The prizes were really very cute.

The main twist had occurred when the prize distribution had been finished.Choto chachima made a surprise cake for Mumu,as on 7 November was her birthday,It was a pre birthday celebration.Mumu was literally shockingly surprised.She did not even get a single hint regarding.she was silent for a while.That scenario was another funny thing.

After finishing our roof top segment ,we came to chotochachima’s house,to attend our tea segment. It was our main party actually. All of us are solely tea lover. Without tea ,we cannot pass a single day.

Choto chachima made denish tea for us.The taste was amazing.We all started gossiping along with tea and it had been continued till 10 pm.After that we all had our dinner with the same menue.We enjoyed the same as we enjoyed the lunch.It was all about the picnic.Indeed it was a great day.  I would love to specially thank Chotochachima.She is actually the main inspirer of our amazing time.With such amazing attributes,our so called roof top picnic had been ended up. We appreciated ourselves for the competition and the prize giving ceremony.

We captured so many pictures on that day. It will be remained as a great day in my memory.When I will grow old ,I will remind the memory, there was a picnic on the roof top, there was a competition, There were prizes.

I am really very blessed to have such nice jolly family. We never get time to be bored.Whenever we get time we hitch to do tea party or to celebrate movie time. Chotochachima is always there to serve us tea and delicious snacks. Tea party on the roof top is like our daily function.Sejho chachima is always famous for long drive.All my cousins are so talented,most of them are very active in co-curricular activities,they always cheer us up with their dancing, and singing.

We also have our grandparents alive,Sometimes we visit them with our gang and have great time together.  

I always pray to Allah may our family bonding live long and keep safe. Now a days it is rare actually to have such great big family. When I tell my friends about my family, they just keep saying me that how lucky I am!

 A Creepy night at Rooftop:

I am a nocturnal human being. I am used to sleep very late at night. Before sleeping I am used to watch movies, do exercise and have a cup of tea. My one of the fascination at night is to go to the roof top and counting stars,it that is a moonlit night,or get drenched in rain,if it rains. It literally sounds abnormal,but it is true. May be Allah also gets disgusted by my such activities,so he gets a plan to stop this.

A Creepy night at Rooftop

A two headed illusion

Before experiencing that creepy night,there was a saying regarding our roof that,at late night many creepy sounds were supposed to come from the rooftop,it was like someone is jumping spontaneously. Our flat renters were informing about the matter.


Another peculiar thing was that someone dropped eggs from the roof on the passer by. Some people were used to complain. We all became awkwardly tensed regarding the matter. We all were thinking who did such things? It is supposed to be observed. But no one actually had that gut to go to the roof at late night. My dad and Choto chacchu,they did not believe the matter,they thought someone was doing that as a fun. But me,my counsin,mom,boro chachima,sejho chachima ,choto chachima,we were thinking that may be ghost is doing that or something devilish element is doing that. We all got scared. We decided to consult with a Hujur. But my dad got angry. He said that,The ghost has some other task than to disturb us. You all watch horror movies,it is all about imagination. We all stopped everything at that moment but still we were curious about the matter.


One day we planned to go on the rooftop to stay and observe the matter. My choto chachima said I will make tea for all of us, take snacks so that we cannot get hungry and have fun rather than being scared. Because it is matter of courage and concentration. Even we have to run if we see something unsusal at that moment if someone gets asleep than that could be dangerous.


We were really excited about the plan and started preparing ourselves for the mission. As it was winter time we all properly dressed ourselves so that we could not catch cold. We downloaded movie to pass our time during the observation. All of us were feeling like Sherlock Homes.


We all got to the spot I mean the roof top at 11 p.m. My choto chachima brought tea,biscuits,noodles,we all helped her to serve those things. Our mission members were: Me,Chotochachima,Sejho chachima,Mukta,Mumu,Daheek,Zareef,Subah,Surah,Anika Aunty and Smrity Apu. We called our gang Chillar PARTY.


We started our movie and at the same we got concerned. If we heard any sound we were searching with torch and trying to figure out the matter. It was almost mid night,about 3.15 a.m. There is a saying that,the time  before Fazar namaz,like 3 am to 3.45 a.m. it is a bad time,during this time the supernatural being gets alert. So at 3.15 a.m. we got a falling sound from the south corner of the roof. It was like something heavy is jumping continuously. Firstly we thought it might be the sound of trucks as construction was going. But the sound was gradually increasing ,it was coming near to us. By that time we really got scared . We all were trembling and even did get strength to hold the torch to figure out the matter. Finally Daheek ,he came along with torch to look. But Suddenly the torch battery was gone.


At that time, Choto chachima felt that someone was standing behind the roof gate. Someone tall and wide, she could not get a clear figure of the structure. She informed us ,we all were moving ahead to figure out the matter. Suddenly the torched started working, we saw a horrible shadow on the wall. It was like Two head attached together in a single body,it was so tall and the body was scratched and injured. We saw that vision for 10 seconds. That 10 seconds were the breath taking moment for us. What we were supposed to watch in horror movies,that was just happening in front of us. We all became speechless and stood like statue. It seemed like we did not have any guts to move. Suddenly we heard a rough sound like crashing something heavy ,we watched over there and the vision had gone. We all got down packing our things.


Whatever it was,but honestly speaking that was horrible. We really did not figure out that,it was doing all the stuffs,but we were sure that something unusual was definitely on our roof top.


We did not take the matter slightly ,we informed all the things and got Dad and Choto chacchu to be agreed to consult a hujur. We consulted a hujur without any delay. He gave us some rituals and we strictly completed that.


It has been almost one year to experience such incident. But still we get scared to go to the roof top after evening. After the incident we have never gone on the roof alone.


There is a saying that,There is nothing called ghost. In Holy Quran,There is mentioning of Jinns and supernatural attributes. So we must be careful of this and always recite Ayatul Qursi to protect ourselves.

To me,Love is always a responsibility .A responsibility to take care of your beloved ones. It is not a pressure actually,it is an affectionate part of life. We just love to watch the smiling faces of our beloveds. It happens in every kind of feeling. 

Love


Today I will be telling a love’s story where two persons of opposite personalities fall in love. It is the story of Jisan and Elma.


Elma is the emotional fool and Jisan is exaggeratedly practical. They both got to know each other on facebook Elma got a friend request from Jisan,she just accepted the request .After a couple of days,they started chatting,Jisan knocked first,it is the etiquette of social media,the boy should knock first. From their very first chatting,they started talking about life,career,crisis ,problems. Basically ,Elma was used to listen and Jisan explained everything. She was wondering ,how can a person  live with such problems and tensions? The boy had some problems with his family,specially with his father. He was always in tension and crisis so that he could not concentrate on his career. He had so many ups and downs .On the other hand, Elma was totally brought up in pampered way. She never faced such crisis in her life what Jisan faced. But she listened to his each and every words like an imparadise. She took him as a learning lesson of her life.


Jisan was so straight forward. One day Elma got fever and cold. Instead of asking her condition, the boy told him why she came out with such sickness, it might be risky for others. Elma was totally shocked and decided that, she will never talk him. Yap! She continued that for some days. She  kept herself busy  with studies and other tasks. But somehow she felt for that person. Jisan was also dying to contact with her. But he did not get her online. He somehow felt that the girl might have got hurt by his words.


Elma remained upset for an unknown reason, her best friend Monti noticed that, she is being asked regarding the matter. Elma did not hide anything and told everything, Monti suggested her to ignore the matter,she needed to deal the matter with much straightforwardness.


So many days had been passed without any contact. They got busy with their job.


Oneday Elma got the notification of Jisan’s birthday on facebook, so finally the silence broke up, She wished him. He was super surprised and excited. For the first time, they both overwhelmed and blushed. It was like bouncing ball in mind, specifically from Elma’s side.


Finally they decided to meet each other. Elma came to Jisan’s building and waited. After 15 minutes,Jisan came down. To Elma ,Jisan looked as same as she saw him in his photos. Jisan got impressed by Elma’s height and her outfit. He found the girl really very cute. They went to 300ft and had a boat journey. In the mid way, Elma got slipped and Jisan hold her. It was the first touch ever. Elma was really very timid ,so it was like an electric shock to her. They spent 4 hours together. It seemed like if they never met after that, this meeting would be okay to cherish each other’s memory. It was unexpectedly great day for them.

Love


Already one year had passed,they both became busy again,Elma was busy with her graduation and Jisan was busy with his new job. One day Elma got a message from Jisan,he asked her what’s app number. She gave him her number without any thinking. They got attached through what’s app. Everyday night Jisan called Elma. They talked,Jisan got sleepy and slept keeping Elma on the call. Elma  tried to be friended with his snoring sounds. After somedays she made a great friendship with that, because literally it became the boy’s daily habit. It sounds awkward but trust me it was an amazing feeling for Elma. She was somehow learning to adjust with small tiny situations. If somehow any day Jisan missed to call her, Elma became restless. She started feeling something which she never felt before. May be it was the essence of love.


Jisan had some bad memories regarding relationships. He did not want to deal with that anymore. That is why Elma never wanted to confess him. But she was always trying to take care of him that impressed Jisan. He understood that Elma was already in love with him. He observed somedays and finally confessed that he got her feeling for him, no need to hide anything. Their relation started without any proposal.


The relationship was a life time lesson for Elma. Whenever she got time, she mesmerized herself reminding the memory of how she fell in love with that straightforward rude boy like Jisan to whom she once decided to cut all the contact. Once she could not even tolerate him,now she cannot think a single moment without him.


Allah was really very kind towards their relationship. Now these two are happily married and expecting their first child.


I wish every love’s story gets a happy ending like Elma and Jisan’s story. Love actually never cares for anything, it is beyond everything. It is blind to all differences and obstacles.


From this story,we can see that how two different persons from different background fall in love with each other and how they adjust with each other. Actually love can make you do anything, not being a pressure but being a responsibility which we just happily handle.

I was literally an over weighted person for years. You could call me either chubby or bulky. But I got an advantage due to height. As I am tall, sometimes it could help me to hide my bulkiness. I did not seem that much fat as my weight was.

 

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Woman's Fitness fat to fit challenge

 

 However, my family especially my mom was really worried regarding my weight. She was supposed to say, please dear, lose some weight! Otherwise you will suffer. I was supposed to ignore the fact. But one day my dad became cautious suddenly regarding the matter. He brought the weight machine from boro chachu’s house and told me to stand on that.

I was like totally speechless and started praying Allah! Save me. But Allah was not kind enough on that moment to save me, may be it was his plan to make me fit from fat. Allah is the best planner in anyway. He planned to make me health conscious by means of my dad.

Now let me explain something which is the most acute truth of my life, my dad is like the charming stone of my life.Today whatever I have done ,only because of my dad.

My dad is a very rational person.He is used to take every single step of his life with proper investigation and understanding.He also researched a lot to find out a suitable way for losing weight. He introduced me with Keto diet which is a low carb diet. In this diet, you can take certain type of protein like: chicken, beef, mutton (steak),beans, egg(fried),fats like: nuts,  cheese(except mozzarella),butter, mustard oil, olive oil and last but not the least a lot of vegetables except cucurbit, radish, potatoes and have to avoid any kind of carbohydrate ,sweets and sugar.

 

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Fat to fit


It was really a tough job to live without rice as it is our main food.My mom literally started crying and worried how to do such diet no need to do.But my dad was strict enough and he handled the whole situation,he guided me in every single possible way.He was used to find out different keto recipe to make the dishes delicious.

My mom tried to make the dishes delicious.I am really very fond of hochpoch.My dad found out the recipe of keto hoch-poch, my mom prepared that for me.The most interesting part of that recipe was ,husk had been used as the sizzling of that hoch-poch,the taste was horrible but the effort that made the food delicious to me.

One of the plus point of mine was, it was winter time and I ate a lot of vegetables. I am really very of vegetables. May be, It is because of my family’s disciplinary maintenance regarding food habit and my mom is an excellent cook I must recommend. Literally I realized the matter during my dieting days.

I had to do a lot of exercises. As I stayed at cantonment areas and my grandfather was an army person, so I got the opportunity to get in to the army park for jogging. I was doing my masters on that time.

I returned home by evening,somehow freshened up myself ,put on my jogging suits and went for jogging with my dad. My dad was used to walk inside the park and I was used to jogging. That experience was amazing. Dark night between the woods always reminded me the poem of Robert Frost’s Stopping By woods at a snowy evening.

By those days I also discovered my strictness .We had a baby shower program of our Sister in Law, Chotovabi. I literally dieted on that day.By those times I was being able to lose 12 kilos of my weight,but still I was strict.I did not even cheat for a single.On that very day,I had vegetables in my lunch.

                                                                                    

My mom gave me some slices of chicken roast from her as the piece was good,She was having rice,due to that some rice consisted upon the piece.I was literally saying,I ate two rice.It was an interesting story then. The phrase of “ Duita vaat den” came true on that day by my reaction.

My mom became very emotional by my condition. Oneday she cooked hoch-poch but could not eat a bite because I did not.

She was saying to my dad,I can’t take this, I just can’t. I felt super helpless at that moment and prayed to Allah, Please help me to lose my weight quickly, I can’t take this situation.

Once my nanu and my cousin Joti visited me, Nanu could not take a single bite of anything peacefully. She was kept saying all the time, Why don’t you eat? Then how can I eat?

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Fat to fit
 

After having 54 days of hardship, I was being able to lose 15kilos of weight. I came in to my targeted shape.

I got so much appreciation from my family, friends and relatives. At the same time, I got to realize the fact very strongly how much they actually care for me and adore me.

After being fit, for a couple of months, I became the diet instructor for my Aunts, friends and also cousins. I can’t remember how many times I made chart and instructed them. Some of them really got good result which gave me pleasure much. At least I could do something for my loved ones.

I feel very proud to be attached with such amazing people.

..............

Fahima Afreen

I belong to a lovely,conservative and solvent family where love and care are the main fuel power to stay happy and fine.But for the last couple of days,me and my family got devastated due to some uncertain death news.I am talking about the last week actually.It was a pathetic week actually,we were literally got shockingly surprised to get the bad news from the same family.It is the dead story of my mom's aunt and her cousin( The son of that late aunt).

Memorable day

 

 

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On 15 November ,we got the news of Lili apa's ( Mom's aunt) death and just the day after that on 16 November we got the news of Khoka mama's death(Mom's cousin).So it can be easily understood that how much pathetic the situation was!So we decided to visit Nurshingdi where my all of my maternal relatives stay.

 

In the meanwhile, I would love to explain their bonding.My nanu has 3 sisters,among them My Lili apa was the closest to my nanu.It seemed Lili apa was like the shadow in my nanu's daily activities from marketing to sewing shoes,in each and every attributes they were supposed to share.So it was literally a great shock to my nanu.

 

My Lili apa was also very close to my mom,mama and me.She never called my mom or mama by names,she always said: Jhi go and Babjan. She was even close to me also,when I was born she is the first person who took me in her arms.

 

I want to mention another thing, Omar vaiya,(Lili apa'a husband) he also passed away 3 years ago.He was also a very affectionate person. He adored a lot.My Khoka mama always called me Ma,he never called me by my name.

We started for Nurshingdi just at 2.30 p.m. My mom and dad visited to Lili apa’s house couple of years ago.It is at Bilardi,a famous area in Nurshingdi.So my dad did not know the exact location, he was almost lost. My boro mama called and directed him to the correct spot.It was another adventure of that day.

 

happiness and sorrow

Finally by 4.11 pm,we reached to the spot.We were literally getting the mourning vibes from the house by the street side.It was pathetically horrible.

Entering to the house,we saw the big cot where the body of Khoka mama was laid down.My mama was a giant person.So the scene was gigantically gloomy.When my mom entered to the house,Nila aunty( Sister of Khoka mama),brusted in to tears.My mom hugged her and tried to make her calm.

 

I was a little scared to face the corpse, so I directly went to the yard inside and encountered my  mami,mami kept my younger brother and brough him chips.In the mean time,I encountered my nanu and Mashu apa( Another sister of nanu),they called me in to take seat.

During such painful situations,I noticed some blissful moment of bonding.When the corpse had been taken away for burial,Nipa aunt brusted in to tears,on that moment my mom,Lucky Apa( Nanu’s another sister) hugged her and tried to console her,The scenario was like a lovely trinity and defined that they really shared a great bond from their childhood to till now.

 

My brother was really intolerable to stay there,so My mami took me and My brother with her at her residence.But my mom and dad was there.My dad attended to the Janajah.My mom met my mami( Khoka mama’s wife) to console her.

 

My mami was totally quite and she was almost silent due to this excessive loss. She started telling my mom,Apa,I decorated your brother with Surma.was not he looking nice?That situation was unexplainable in a straight way.

 

My another aunty Nila Aunty(Younger sister of Khoka mama) she was in oxygen support,her situation was terrible.Due to the gradual losses of the dearest person,the family totally broke down.It was all about the saddest part of that day.

My mami ,she is a great cook,she just loves to make foods and feeds others,specially me.She literally becomes mad when I visit her. On that day nothing alternative happened.She was buying murali for me,making nachos , samosas,burgers whatever I like.At her home I get a vibe of restaurant ,it seems like whatever you order you will get.My cousin,Joti she is also like her mother.

She also becomes excited in treating me.I was literally overfilled with foods.I could not take a single bite.

The most interesting thing happened when my brother got into Auto rickshaw and sat with the driver.The road condition was very bad,he was literally pushing the driver from the seat,and the driver could not say anything,he was just praying ,Oh God,please help me from falling..That scene was very funny.

 

The most charming part was when me and Joti walked on street in search of tea.It was dark evening, we went out for tea stall ,we took tea and bought jhalmuri from the nearby van.My nanu is really fond of jhalmuri.There was rush to be at home as my father went out for Eshar prayer. We were supposed to be at home before he had returned. We literally ran and reached at home.

 My nanu was literally blushed watching jhalmuri with us. It was a token of trail to make nanu normal from her pain. We forcefully feed her, but that was really very delicious unexpectedly. So I would say that we got a great hunger due to mourning.

 

After having a great feast with prawn curry and fried fish,we got in to car and started at 8.45.The main twist of that was waiting there.Our wheel started licking,and whoever noticed that started shouting ,hey brother,you wheel is licking,check it out.We were literally mad at searching of garage.But that was not available.My cousin Joti she started asking ,hey brother!is there any garage nearby?? But there was no garage nearby.We dropped Joti in front of her house. She reached and instantly informed Mami. Mami informed mama who stays in Itlay.Mama called mom from there due to tension.

 

 Already my nanu,boro mama also got informed regarding the matter ,they started calling and told us to return back.My nanu was crying and started praying. It seemed like we were in Kuruksetrro.Finally we found a garage,it was supposed to be closed,May be Allah was great at that moment,My dad  somehow managed a boy to fix the wheel.So by the grace of Allah,the wheel had been fixed up.

 

My dad started driving like a super man.We informed nanu and mami that we have fixed up the hassles and they got relieved.

It was a dusty night then,the circumstances started getting calm and quite.It assumed like telling a tale of tranquility.I started listening to The Beatles song ‘Norwegian Woods’,the song was totally perfect with the atmosphere.It was an amazing feeling.We reached at our residence by 11.45 p.m.

To me,the day was an unexpected adventure with a multidimensional mixture of fun,taste,sadness,mourning and hassles.I got a touch up of different shades of feeling in life.The day taught me how to deal with pain, how to settle down bitter moment,how to adjust,how to be courageous regarding taste of food and finally how to realize the greatness of life.

I think I will always cherish the memory of the day whenever I will get time.It may make me feel enchanting regarding life and relationships.

 .......................

Fahima Afreen

 

 

 

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 On a moonlit night it was about  p.m,,Mumu was waiting for the bus on kalshi road,.she attended to a birthday party,,was returning from it.The weather was a little bit windy,she was scared of the weather rather than the. 

Circumstances..She was. Thinking about the party and theme,as she was dressed following the halloween theme,black jeans,black top with a pumpkin print,black clips to tight up her french and wearing black ribboned high heels,it seemed like she was the queen of the current circumstances and to spice up the moment more, she popped out her earphones and stared listening to her favourite track of Tylor swift,bad blood and started visualizing the music video,,how the girls create their own gang to protest....suddenly she encountered some boys coming towards her,,she thought they were also waiting for the buss,so she just kicked Out the. Matter slightly from her head,and returned to her. Song and imagination.. 

Don't mess with a woman

Don't mess with a woman

After a while.,, the boys. Started whispering,, but Mumu still unaware of the matter, In the meanwhile one of the boys came towards her and asked where she wanted to go,they had. Car,,it  was on the way,Mumu denied that,but suddenly another boy came to her and tried to touch her with  bad intentions,by that time all. The. Thugs surrounded her,MUMU was quite helpless for. A while and started  thinking. From where she could start,finally she got. An idea to apply her iconic shot of martial art, for what she got the Brown belt.She pulled up her right leg and throw a side kick. Like Forsittye( a fictitious character of bad blood song) towards the boy who was trying to touch her.
Watching her moves,the thugs became a little bit scared, as they were totally clueless regarding martial arts.
After a while,one of the boys came towards Mumu, she throw a front kick without thinking, the boy got injured with his nose.Mumu found a ribbonand a mask (which was a part of the theme tonight),she Somehow managed to bind the mask with the ribbon,and made a string like weapon, all of the boys got frightened by this time,but sunddenly another boy tried to cross her,she applied her newly made weapon, she was using that like a super girl,due to that the boy got scratched on his chins.and gave him a kick to his main part,he just felt down with cooing, seemed like he is the ultimate looser tonight. 
Mumu shouted and said: is anyone interested to come along and have the scratchy bite?!The boys came forward to hold their injured friend  finally ran away from the spot.. After passing a few steps. They got in to a. Car and  flied away with speed as much as possible. 
By that time Some couple of people started coming along to Her and asked her what happened, are you okay????Mumu Didn't reply,she just smiled and appreciated herself saying that:Mumu you are brave,you can defend,you are flawless,well done! 
Then she again started listening the song :
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Fahima Afreen

আমাদের মধ্যে অনেকে অনলাইন জন্ম নিবন্ধন করার ক্ষেত্রে ভিবিন্নভাবে হয়রানি শিকার হয়ে থাকে। 

তাই অনলাইন জন্ম নিবন্ধন করার সহজ উপায়গুলো আমাদের জেনে রাখার দরকার ।

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন কেমন করে করবেন? কি কি ডুকোমেন্ট প্রয়োজন হয় আর জন্ম সনদ প্রয়োজনীয়তা নিয়ে বিস্তারিত আলোচনা নিম্নরুপ:

জন্ম নিবন্ধন কি :                                                                                                                                       

বাংলাদেশ সরকারের  জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ও মৃত্যু নিবদ্ধন আইন, 2004(2004সনের 29নং আইন) এর আওতায় 

একজন্ ব্যক্তির নাম, জন্ম তারিখ, পিতার নাম, মাতার নাম , লিঙ্গ , জাতীয়তা ও স্থানীয় ঠিকানা একটি নির্দিষ্ট 

রেজিস্টারের মাধ্যমে নিবন্ধন করা বা কম্পিউটারে এন্ট্রি প্রদান করার ও সনদ প্রদান করাকে বলা হয়ে থাকে।

একথায় বলা যায় যে, একটি শিশুকে তার জন্ম পর সরকারের একটি নির্দিষ্ট খতিয়ান বইতে নাম ঠিকানা 

সহ তার যাবতীয় তথ্য অর্ন্তভূক্তি করাকে জন্ম নিবন্ধন বলা হয়ে থাকে। 

bdris.gov.bd

 

জন্ম নিবন্ধন ফরম অনলাইন:

 একজন বাংলাদেশের নাগরিকের জন্ম নিবন্ধন করাটা অতি গুরুত্বপূর্ণ একটি বিষয়। সাধারণত একটি শিশুর

 জন্ম ৪৫দিন পর হতে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার নিয়ম আছে। সন্তান জন্ম গ্রহন পর পর তার এলাকায় জন্ম 

অফিসে গিয়ে নিবদ্ধন করতে হবে। জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার জন্য যেহেতু সরকারের নিদিষ্ট ফরম আছে 

সেহেতু নিবদ্ধন করার জন্য সরকারের https://bris.lgd/gov.bd.pub লিংকে প্রবেশ করে 

আপনার স্থানীয় নিবদ্ধন কার্যালয়ে আবেদন করতে পারেন

জন্ম নিবন্ধন ফরম :

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ফরম পাওয়ার জন্য স্থানীয় ইউনিয়ন পরিষদ অফিস / পৌরসভা কার্যালয় অফিসে /কোন নিকটবর্তী 

অনলাইন সেবা কেন্দ্র হতে সরকারি নিদির্ষ্ট সাইটে প্রবেশ করে ডাউনলোড করে নিতে পারেন।

 ফরম ডাউনলোড করার জন্য কোন ইন্টারনেট ব্রউজারে গিয়ে https://bris.gov.bd.pub ‍লিংকে 

প্রবেশ করে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ফরম ডাউনলোড করে নিতে পারেন।                              

জন্ম নিবন্ধন দেখব কেমন করে : জন্ম নিবদ্ধন দেখার জন্য আপনাকে বাইরে যেতে হবে না যদি আপনার 

বাড়িতে ইন্টারনেট বা লেপ্টপ বা কম্পিউটার থাকে তাহলে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন সাইটে প্রবেশ করে তা দেখে নিতে পারেন ।

 আপনি সাইটে প্রবেশ করে প্রথমে জন্ম রেজিস্টারের নাম্বার তার পর জন্ম তারিখ দিয়ে প্রবেশ করতে পারেন ।

ফরম ডাউনলোড করার জন্য https://bdris.gov.bdসাইটে গিয়ে আবেদন পত্রের ধরন , অ্যাপলিকেশন 

আইডি ও জন্ম তারিখ বসিয়ে নিচে প্রিন্ট বাটামে ক্লিক করলে নিদ্দিষ্ট ব্যক্তির জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ফরম দেখাব।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন ফরম ২০২১:জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ফরম পেতে সরকার নিধানিত ওয়েইব সাইটে গিয়ে ডাউলোড করে নিতে হবে। 

ডাউনলোড করতে https://bdris.gov.bdসাইটে গিয়ে প্রথমে রেজিস্টার করে নিতে হবে ।

নতুন জন্ম নিবদ্ধন জন্য কিছু নিয়মাবলী রয়েছে যেগুলো ব্যত্তিকে পালন করতে হবে। নিবদ্ধন কার্যালয়ের জন্য 

আপনার স্থান বা স্থানীয় ঠিকানা বিভাগ , জেলা , উপজেলা ও ইনিয়ন ওয়ার্ড উল্লেখ করতে হবে।

 জন্ম নিবদ্ধন অনলাইন আবেদন ফরম প্রথমে বাংলা (ইউনিকোড) ও পরবর্তীতে ইংরেজিতে পূরন পর 

প্রয়োজনীয় কাজ শেষে সাপমিট বাটমে ক্লিক করে দিলে ফরমটি সংশ্লিষ্ট কার্যালয়ে স্থানান্তরিত হয়ে যাবে 

যা আবেদন আর কোন সংশোধন সুযোগ থাকবে না। সনদের জন্য আবেদনকারীকে ১৫ দিনের মধ্যে উক্ত 

আবেদন পত্রে নির্দেশিত প্রত্যয়ন সংগ্রহ করে প্রয়োজনীয় কাগজ পত্রসহ সত্যায়িত কপিসহ নিবদ্ধন অফিসে যোগাযোগ করতে হবে।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন নম্বর: জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার পর  সনদে যে রেজিস্টার নাম্বার লেখা থাকে তাই হল জন্ম নিবদ্ধন নম্বর । 

যা সাধারনত অনেক ডিজিট হয়ে থাকে।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন সংশোধন :

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন প্রথম বার স্থানীয় ইউনিয়ন বা পৌর সভা কার্যালয়ে পারা গেলেও তা যদি কোন কারণে ভূল 

বা ক্রুটি হয় বা সংশোধন প্রয়োজন হয়ে পরে তাহলে তা উপজেলা নির্বাহী অফিসার বরাবর আবেদন করে এপ্রুভাল নিতে হবে ।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন ফরম ২০২১pdf: জন্ম নিবন্ধন ফরম পিডিএফ কপি আপনি ওয়েইবসাইটে ডাউলোড করে পেতে পারেন । 

আপনাদের সুবিধাথে আমি এখানে কিছু বিস্তারিত লিখছি। পিডিএফ অর্থ হলো ফাইল আকারে আর ইমেইল হলো ছবি আকারে । 

সাইটে আপনি পিডিএফ বা ইমেইজ বা ছবি সব ধরনে পাবেন। জন্ম নিবদ্ধন

জন্ম নিবন্ধন সংশোধন অনলাইন: জন্ম নিবদ্ধন অনলাইনে সংশোধন করার জন্য নির্দিষ্ট ফরমে আবেদন করে তা 

সঠিক তথ্য অনলাইনে উপজেলা নির্বাহী অফিসার কর্তৃক এপ্রুভাল করে নিতে হবে।

ইউনিয়ন পরিষদ জন্ম নিবন্ধন:

 আপনি যদি বাংলাদেশের অভন্তরে কোন ইউনিয়ন পরিষদ স্থায়ীবাসিন্দা হয়ে থাকেন তাহলে আপনার 

সন্তানের জন্ম নিবদ্ধন আপনি স্থানীয় ইউনিয়ন পরিষদ চেয়ারম্যান কাছ হতে পাবেন ।

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন ফরম পূরন পূর্বক ইউনিয়ন পরিষদ চেয়াম্যান বরাবর তা আবেনদন করতে হবে।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন কি কি কাজে লাগে:

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন একটি দেশের নাগরিকের জন্য অত্যন্ত প্রয়োজনীয় একটি জিনিস। একটি দেশের নাগরিকত প্রমান 

করে সে দেশের জাতীয় পরিচয় পত্র বা ভোটার আইডি কার্ড। 

আর জাতীয় পরিচয় পত্র তৈরি করার জন্য অনলাইন জন্ম নিবদ্ধন সনদ প্রয়োজন রয়েছে।

সাধারণত একটি শিশুর জন্ম ৪৫দিন পর হতে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার নিয়ম আছে।

জন্ম নিবন্ধন দেখব :

মৃত্যু নিবন্ধন আবেদন ফরম ডাউনলোডpdf: মৃত্যু নিবদ্ধন আবেদন ও জন্ম নিবদ্ধন মত আজ অনলাইনে করা যায়।

 মৃত্যু নিবদ্ধন জন্ম নিবদ্ধন মত বাধ্যতা মূলক না হলে ও তা সাধারণত কোন প্রমান বা দলিল করার জন্য মৃত্যুর

 নিবদ্ধন করাতা বাধ্যতা মূলক হয়ে থাকে। কোন মৃত্য ব্যক্তির জমির দলিল তৈরি করতে বা কোন মৃত্য 

বক্তির ব্যাংক নমিনিকে অর্থ প্রদান করতে ও সরকারি চাকুরিজীবিদের মৃত্য ব্যত্তির পেনসন পেতে মৃত্যু নিবন্ধন করা হয়ে থাকে।

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন অনলাইন কপি ডাউলোড ২০২১:

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন সংশোধন করার নিয়ম ২০২১:জন্ম নিবদ্ধন সংশোধন করার জন্য কিছু নিয়ম বা 

নীতিমালা রয়েছে যা পালন করে একজন ব্যক্তি তার জন্ম সনদ সংশোধন করতে পারেন।

 জন্ম সনদ সংশোধন করার জন্য সে ব্যক্তিকে আবার আবেদন করতে হবে।

 একটা কথা মনে রাখতে হবে সংশোধন নতুন নিবদ্ধন করা চেয়ে কিছুটা জটিলতা পূর্ণ বা সময় সাপেক্ষ হয়ে থাকেন ।

 কারন নতুন নিবদ্ধন করার ক্ষেত্রে এলাকায় বা স্থানীয় কার্যালয়ে সনদ গ্রহণে সুযোগ থাকলে 

ও সংশোধন বেলা তা যাচাই বাছাই করার জন্য উপজেলা নির্বাহী অফিসার বরাবর প্রেরন করে তা অনুমোধন করিয়ে নিতে হয়ে থাকে।

অনেকের কাছে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার নিয়ে অনেক প্রশ্ন থাকে যা আমরা তা পয়েন্ট আকারে সাজিয়েছি । 

যা আমরা বিস্তারিত আলোচনা করতে চেষ্টা করবো।

জন্ম নিবদ্ধন অনলাইন করার নিয়ম:   

সাধারণত জন্ম নিবদ্ধন একটি শিশুর জন্ম গ্রহন করার পর ৪৫ দিনের মধ্যে করার বাধ্যতামুলক রয়েছে। আর ২ বছর পর ও যদি জন্ম নিবদ্ধন না করে থাকে তাহলে জন্মদাতা অভিবাভক বা মা বাবাকে জরিমানা করা বিধান রয়েছে। একটি শিশু জন্ম পর ধর্ম বর্ণ গোষ্টি জাতি যাই হোক না কেন সবাইকে জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করা বাধ্যতামুলক। জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার সময় অবশ্যই সর্তকতা সাথে তথ্য প্রদান বা ফরম পূরন করতে হবে যাতে ভূল ক্রটি না হয়। অর্তকতার জন্য অনেক সময় জন্ম সনদের তথ্য ভূল হয়ে থাকে যা পরে সংশোধনে অনেক বেশি জামেলা বা হয়রানি হতে পারে।               

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জন্ম নিবদ্ধন করার সময় প্রথমত তথ্য প্রদানকারীকে অবশ্যই সঠিক তথ্য যাচাই করা উচিৎ। অনলাইনে তথ্য যাচাই করার জন্য সরকারের নিধারিত ওয়েবসাইটে গিয়ে সেখানে জন্ম সনদের নম্বর ও জন্ম তারিখ ব্যবহার করে প্রবেশ করে সনদ ডাউলোড করে তথ্য যাচাই করে নিতে পারেন।

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